Here ya go....

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_the_English_language

and (whoa!) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infinity

Not sure that helped.

:)

Thoughts

It's harder to keep this up than I thought it would be. I always underestimate how hard a thing is going to be. I kinda like this quality of mine though...it makes me unafraid to take things on. :)

I might try some loose thoughts and observations for a while, rather than pressuring myself to spin a short yarn every day.

As for the birds, there are MORE babies. Discovered today. So little they do not peep at all yet. (Cute!) Can you believe it?!! I am so pleasantly surprised! Was that bird sitting there the mother laying more eggs? Was one of the first babies assigned the task of sitting on the next "litter?" Hmm.

You have probably noticed that my kids are my obsession. I am recently awakening from complete and total child obsession into a verision (still somewhat blurry) of my former self.....enough to actually SEE how obsessed I am. Oh well.

That said, here is my latest musing upon my little cherubs. I love answering my kids' questions. I suppose as a teacher, this aspect of parenting is one of my favorites. I get such satisfaction out of enlightening their little minds or feeding their natural desires to know. But this gets harder as they grow older. It used to be I had all the answers. The kids are only 4 and 6, yet more and more, I find myself leaning upon my "crutch answer:" "I am going to check that out for you on the internet as soon as you go to sleep."

I mean that sincerely, yet I don't always get around to it. Tonight Emilia asked me how our language was made. Huh? Uh, I don't know! I mean, I came up with some kind of an answer about languages growing from other languages, but I just made that up, and it didn't really satisfy me. I am going to look this up. Then a minute later, Lucas was asking me how many digits are in infinity. (I swear.) Uh....... Now I know that infinity does not have digits (right?) but I am having a heck of a time explaining infinity to these kids. Lucas is number nuts lately; I love it. He will ask me "Mommy, what's 10+10?" "What's 20+20?" What's 40+40?" and on and on and on until we're too high for me to do it in my head any longer.

Well, I guess I'm off......to the internet.....AND BEYOND!

Happy Mom's Day Mommies!
:) Tracy

Baby Bird Update

I feel the need to share that there is one baby bird that still sits in the nest. I don't know what his deal is. Why hasn't he flown off with the others? He is always there, in the nest. The Mom and Dad seem to still come and tend to him; I honestly haven't paid too much attention. They don't seem to be feeding him. He does fly out sometimes. It isn't that he can't fly. He just likes to chill in the nest.

:) Tracy

For now, they are listening...

The extent to which my children listen to me surprises me. I don't mean when I am telling them to "BE QUIET AND GO TO BED!" for the tenth time. They don't listen then. I mean to the big stuff. I have it so stuck in my head that "actions speak louder than words" that I had just assumed that words were for naught. (I know, silly, but it's the truth.) I'd been thinking as long as I DID the right thing, it didn't really matter what I said. Wrong. The little buggers do listen and absorb everything we say, I've found, so we have to be perfect in word and deed it turns out. Great.


I had this impressed upon myself yet again the other day while Emilia was discussing her "friend troubles" with me. It appears one of her little Kindergarten buddies is putting on a play (this is the latest thing amongst Emilia and her class) and cast her as the queen. We all know there are bad school days, great school days, and average school days, the latter of course, being the most common variety. Occasionally something awful or wonderful will kick the day rating up or down a notch into one of the more extreme categories.


Well the day my daughter got the news she was the queen, was a good day. She was just thrilled, in a way that an A on the spelling test, or a trip to the prize box even, was never going to come close to. Needless to say, two weeks later, when this friend told Emilia she was no longer the queen, the torch had been passed to so-and-so, was a bad day. (Don't get mad, Mom. Remember, this is life.)


I offered that she should simply write her own play and cast herself as the queen in it. She could still be in her friend's play, but she would have her own too, assuring she was able to keep the coveted role. She liked my idea. Wow. I felt certain nothing short of "she must bend to MY will" was going to do, but perhaps my darling, strong-minded daughter is maturing.

A few more days brought yet another development. Strangely enough, Emilia had offered her friend the role of queen in her play, and the girl refused it! Imagine! Said she wanted to be the princess. (Emilia pointed out to me that the role of princess was not nearly so major a role as that of queen. What was her friend thinking?!) She considered telling the friend that if SHE (Emilia) could have the part she wanted in her friend's play, then the friend could indeed be the princess in HER play. I told her that I had faith she could handle the situation. "But do you think that is a good idea?" she asked me. She asked for my advice. At least for now, she cares what I think. Maybe, if I play my cards right, this will last until she's nine.

:) Tracy

What scent is YOUR handsoap?

I kind of have a thing for liquid hand soap. If I'm feeling spendy, I will splurge on a nice one for the master bath. In my dream world, I would have the L'Occitane ones in there all the time, but I'm talking Target here.

I wanted to take a moment to share the nuttiness of my kids with you......or is that what I've been doing all along....lol. Anyhow, tonight, as my kiddos are going to bed, Emilia announces that Nana and Jack's house smells good. Uh oh. I'm immediately worrying about what her critique of *our* house smell is going to be. (Emilia just may grow up to be a critic of some sort. Very discerning.) I was relieved to be informed that our house smells like nothing. But, she went on to educate me, my parents' house smells like the hand soap at Daddy's sink. The hand soap at Daddy's sink is a reject from my sink. I was dutifully using it up when Daddy expressed a wish for some hand soap, at which I gladly donated it. (I would have never tossed it. I am not like that. Unless I really hated it.) I couldn't remember exactly what that un-beloved scent was. "Not the Funky Farm," Emilia added. Funky Farm is the new hand soap (it's for kids) I allowed myself to buy this weekend in an effort to get my kids a little less resistant to hand washing. It's working. That stuff turned out to be awesome. I bought one for each bathroom. One is floral (daisy, to be exact, although I do not ever remember smelling a daisy) and nice, the other smells like orange Popsicles and is YUM. But neither of those are what Nana's house smells like. "Like the ocean one?" Lucas asked. (See, some men are interested in all of this!) The ocean one is MY soap, it's Method "Sea Minerals," quite lovely, and had formerly been used to entice Lucas to wash up before meals and after toileting (hence his familiarity with it.) This was pre-Funky Farm, of course. No, I let him know this was not the scent in question, either. It was the one at Daddy's sink. Thankfully, their curiosity ended there, and I was allowed to leave the room and reenter sanity for these few brief hours I am allowed each evening. I ran to the bathroom. Green Tea and Lemongrass. I don't have a good ending for this, except to say that I guess I'm passing on my soap obsession!

Max and Ruby

If you have children, you have probably watched this quaint television program. I am not being sarcastic, I really love it! Max and Ruby are two bunny rabbits, brother, aged three, sister, aged eight. Max is always up to his shenanigans, which are very endearing. He speaks very little, usually just one word per "skit," something like "jelly bellies" or "butterfly," whatever he has been coveting for that episode. Ruby is equally lovable. Although I do know a few grown-ups who find her a bit nauseating, I find Ruby to be an excellent role-model for big sisters everywhere, heck, even for parents! Granted, Max's antics are cute. He doesn't break Ruby's toys or beat her up or anything. So it's not that much Ruby has to endure. But Max does get annoying. He never does what Ruby wants, (isn't this a little brother's job?) yet Ruby simply sighs and responds patiently. She always has the perfect little answer, and Max never cries (that I can recall) or throws a fit. It's childhood in an ideal world. Call me crazy, but I like it. My kids love it.

This Friday, I caught an advertisement for a children's theater company that would be offering up Max and Ruby at 2 and 4:30, today (Sunday), at Thalian Hall here in Wilmington. Despite the fact that we are (still) poor, I felt I had to take the kids. In my mind, these are the things charge cards are really for. I have taken my husband's charge cards away, if you must know, but kept my own. This might seem unfair (I know you don't think so, Mom) but if you know me, you understand. I am, quite frankly, the queen of restraint. I can resist anything. Call it a gift, or a curse, however it strikes you, it is what it is. Claudio doesn't mind a whit that I have the cards. My having credit cards is (practically) a non-issue. I think maybe he's hoping I'll spend (on anything) so he can experience it vicariously. Well today he got his wish.

I charged up $36 on the ol' Visa, and it was well worth it. I am a humongous theater fan. I use the term theater broadly to include ballet, concerts, and every kind of theater from the musical to the absurd. It's no secret that I was once an aspiring actress. I love theater, okay? And I want my kids to appreciate it. So I keep taking them. It isn't working.

Emilia, by all counts, should love the theater. She's quite the little ballerina, has danced in The Nutcracker and is currently rehearsing for The Sleeping Beauty Ballet. She adores ballet class and performing. She loved being in the talent show at school, and did a great job. She's definitely got a lot of me in her. Yet every time I try to take her to the theater, to the ballet, to the opera, it flops. She wants to LEAVE at intermission! Imagine! It's gotten to the point that I thought I might be doing more harm than good in my quest to educate her in the finer points of life.

Well today I figured out where I've been going wrong. And it was so painfully obvious. Have you figured it out, yet? Today we went to a production of CHILDREN'S theater. Get it? Theater catering to CHILDREN. What made me think my six year old would be able to appreciate The Pirates of Penzance? I am not saying she hated these productions I've been taking her to, just that I was not getting that "Wow, magic!" reaction I'd been hoping for. The one I remember having when my mom took my sisters and I to see our first musical. It was the local high school play. Oddly enough, (and this is a whole other story, but not a very interesting one, so I probably will never tell it unless you beg me, but don't) I am not sure what musical it was. I think it was Desert Song, but I am not sure. Anyway, I was hooked. I knew I had to be a part of what was going on up there. The perhaps sad part, is that this feeling has never left me. Although I have long since stopped trying to be an actress, it's still there, that longing for the theater. I cry a lot when I go to the theater. I don't mean at the sad parts. At the good parts. I really love it.

Don't be sad for me. I'm very much an optimist and I will make peace with the theater. I'm a tad busy raising my kids at the moment (something I love doing as much as I love the theater, maybe more) but I'll get back to it. That's a promise.

So where the heck was I? Right, children's theater. Very embarrassing that I just really didn't GET it until today. Well, you know what another part of it was? (I just realized this.) This was an excellent production. Top notch. This has been part of the problem, I think, with my past attempts. I love Wilmington, I really do, but I grew up next to New York City, kwim? I know that may sound rude, and I'm sorry, but try to understand. The best of the best was right there. Not quite at my fingertips, but close enough. And I had parents that "got it" and brought us frequently. I was raised on the NYC Ballet Nutcracker and Broadway. The real deal. I do not want to be a theater snob, but I can't help it. Enough on that.

For whatever reason, be it the subject material, the production level, the fact that it catered to the ages of my kids, today, for the first time, my kids enjoyed the theater. I brought the little one (Lucas) too. It wasn't his first time to the theater, but after my strike outs with the older one, I'll admit I've gone a little easier on him.

They both loved it. I was afraid to ask themat first, although their quiet starings at the stage, their movements only to procure a better view, were kind of a hint.
So today was very fulfilling. I have finally managed to share some of this grand love of mine with my children. Priceless.

:) Tracy

Update

The baby birds are gone. They were here when I woke up at 7, gone when Claudio left to bring Emilia to school at 7:40. I missed it. :(